I want to introduce you all to my new friend, Bismark. He is 9 years old and lives in El Alto, which is a part of La Paz, Bolivia. He has a wonderful, loving family including a father, sister, grandparents, aunts, and cousins. He lives with his father, sister, and grandparents in a small house, sharing a bedroom with his father and sister. Life has been hard, but his family is looking to the future. He loves to play games, especially with his sister and cousins. When you first meet him he seems shy, however it does not take long for him to run up to you and hold your hand and whisper jokes in your ear. He laughs easily and has a smile that lights up your world.
Bismark goes to a special school,
Centro San Martin de Porres, because he has a learning disability and has
ADD. Public schools would not accept him because of his learning
disability, so before attending this school he could not read or write but with
the help from the teachers at this center he has made a lot of progress in his
studies, including reading and writing. This center is 10 years old and
serves 120 special education students, provides physical therapy for 25 of
those students, and provides physical therapy for those in the surrounding community.
This is the largest center in El Alto for special education students, and is
one of few in La Paz. The school provides lunch for all students every
day and is funded primarily through donations from the parish and sponsorship
programs.
The Physical Therapy room at the school. |
Bismark was excited to show off his classroom! |
How did I come to know Bismark? He’s my godchild through Christian
Foundation for Children and Aging. For many years I had a godchild in
Guatemala, however a few months before my mission in Bolivia began, I received
a letter from her saying that she has a job and can support herself and thanked
me for my years of sponsorship. I decided to sponsor another child, but I
wanted one who lives in Bolivia since I would be living here. I was
looking through children on the website, and I would like to say that I chose
Bismark, but his picture captured my heart. Bismark chose me.
Feeding pigeons at a plaza in La Paz. |
I decided to arrange a chance to meet him, and October 19, 2013 was the
day! The day started out at the La Paz Project office. Some of the
first words out of Bismark’s was “she’s tall!” and “she has blue eyes!”.
During breakfast he was shy, and only whispered what he wanted to say in his
father’s ear, who then would repeat it. After that we took a walk around
La Paz, and within a few minutes Bismark ran up and grabbed my hand. We
found a Plaza where many people feed pigeons from their hands, and after
Bismark ran through them, scattering them about, we went about feeding them as
well and had so much fun. A little later we headed to El Alto to
Bismark’s house for lunch. I was welcomed by the rest of his family at
the door, his grandparents had tears in their eyes. Bismark’s sister was
quick to introduce herself and take her present from me (I had filled a
backpack for her and Bismark with games, school supplies, and chocolate) and
soon the whole family was laughing as we jumped rope together. We ate
lunch, and his family shared stories and pictures with me and thanked me for
taking the time to come to meet them. As I drove away in the trufi,
Bismark chased after the car outside my window until he couldn’t keep up
anymore.
Jumping rope with the whole family! |
I knew I had to meet him, I just didn’t realize how much meeting him and
hearing his story and his family’s story would impact me. I read once
that God has a way of breaking your heart, and now I understand what that
means. Sometimes, as you encounter life, your heart hardens a little to
what is happening around you. It is not something that you intentionally
do, but nonetheless it happens. God breaks our heart to help us in these
situations to always have compassion and to more fully be able to share His
love. My heart did break as I got to know Bismark, and now it has given
me a fire to do more, and not just for Bismark. I also witnessed what it
means to be there for your family, in good times and in bad times.
Bismark really did choose me, and by meeting him I have learned how important
it is share love, because that is what impacts life. As I go to my
mission site this next week, I know that I am more fully capable of sharing
Christ’s love because Christ will continue to break my heart.
Bismark and his family. How BEAUTIFUL! |
If
anyone want’s to share Christ’s love with a child somewhere in the world, and
would like to know more about Christian Foundation for Children and Aging,
please visit: http://www.cfcausa.org
Wow what a wonderful reflection Julie, Im glad Bismark will live in your heart as you begin your pilgrimage to Okinawa. Buena suerte and God Bless
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